Why Sex Is Out of the Question!

I was sitting here reflecting on my previous "relationships" and flings and stuff... and also thinking about all of my friends' "relationships" and things that I've been told about, found out about, etc... And I decided that sex is the reason for a lot of problems and heartache!

A lot of females have sex too soon... whether it is to get a guy, or to keep him, and the female catches more feelings after the sex because it's natural/typical for females to equate sex with love & relationships... whereas the guy isn't thinking like that.

So if it's too early that this happens the guy may think a few different things... either (1) this girl's madd easy, let me not get too into her cuz if she gave it up to me this soon she probably did it and will do it with other people... (2) All this girl wants is sex, so I don't have to make her my girl... or (3) the chase is over, on to the next bitch...

Whereas, if we wait... the guy's feelings have time to develop, he'll be less likely to just drop the female afterwards, AND he'll have a better opinion on the girl (not thinking she's fast or easy).

AND on top of that, waiting gives us time to find out if the guy really is worth giving our bodies to, or if he's just another playa/dog...

So if we have to get rid of him or he gets rid of us, it won't be so hard on us cuz we won't feel like we played ourselves by sleeping with someone who wasn't worth it.

And this is why I have decided not to have sex with anyone who isn't my man! Because I don't just get into a relationship with just anyone, there are always feelings involved... and even once a dude is my man, he's still going to have to wait; just so I can make sure he's a good one.

-Breathe easy-